3 Deadlifts Every Mom Needs to Know

July 2, 2025

Have you ever looked in the mirror, not recognizing the strong, energized woman you know is in there somewhere? Maybe you’re navigating postpartum recovery, or balancing toddler tantrums with a never-ending to-do list, wondering where your energy (and your booty!) went.


We hear you. We are you. And we’re here to say: you can feel strong again, you can reconnect with your body, and yes; you can grow that booty with moves that actually support your postpartum recovery.


At ABC Fit Collective, we believe fitness for moms should be empowering, effective, and tailored to your unique journey. That’s why our workouts are rooted in the ABCs: Alignment, Breath, and Core - the three essentials for safe and sustainable movement during pregnancy and postpartum.



And today, we’re sharing one of our favorite glute-building staples: deadlifts, mama-style.

From Diapers to Deadlifts: A Mom’s Fitness Reality

Working out as a mom is a whole different ball game. We’re not just trying to “bounce back.” We’re juggling physical healing, emotional ups and downs, sleep deprivation, and sometimes a baby literally clinging to us.


Many of our clients tell us they used to love working out before baby, but now? They’re unsure where to start and worried they’ll do something wrong or injure themselves.


That fear and confusion? Totally normal.


When it comes to feeling strong, steady, and supported from the ground up, nothing beats a good booty workout.


Enter: the deadlift.

Why Deadlifts Are a Game-Changer for Moms

Deadlifts are one of the most powerful, functional movements a mom can do. Think about it: picking up your baby, loading a stroller into the trunk, scooping up toys for the 100th time today, it’s all deadlift territory.

Here’s why we love them:


  • They strengthen your posterior chain (hello, glutes, hamstrings, and low back!).
  • They are excellent for your postural muscles, helping you stand tall and feel strong during those long breastfeeding or baby-wearing hours.
  • They reinforce the ABCs: alignment, breath, and core engagement, all essential for recovery and resilience.

You don’t need a barbell or gym. Just a pair of kettlebells (or even two laundry jugs!) and a few square feet of space.


Let’s break down our top 3 deadlifts for growing your booty and building strength you’ll feel in your everyday life.

1. Romanian Deadlift

This is our go-to for targeting those hamstrings and glutes without overloading the spine. It’s controlled, stable, and perfect for building that mind-muscle connection.


3 things to keep in mind:

  • Keep feet parallel
  • Keep a light bend in your knees
  • Keep weights close to your body


This move is a staple in our Virtual Gym programming because it’s simple, safe, and seriously effective.

2. Single-Leg Deadlift

This one’s a balance and booty booster! It lights up your core, challenges your stability, and targets each glute individually (because let’s be honest - one side always works harder holding the baby).


3 things to keep in mind:

  • Keep hips square
  • Your head should be higher than your hips
  • Keep a slight bend in your supporting leg


Need a modification? Use a wall or chair for balance. Movement is about progress, not perfection.

3. Staggered Stance Deadlift

Think of this as a “bridge” between a two-legged and single-leg deadlift. It gives you the unilateral benefits without the full balance challenge.


3 things to keep in mind:

  • Put minimal weight on your back leg
  • Your head should be higher than your hips
  • Be sure to stand up tall at the top by pressing your hips under your shoulders 


This is a fave in our Virtual Gym classes for reactivating sleepy glutes and reinforcing good alignment.

Tips to Maximize Your Booty-Building Routine

Focus on Form First

Don’t rush through reps. Slow, controlled movements activate muscles more effectively (and reduce injury risk).


Mind Your ABCs

Always come back to your alignment, breath, and core. These are the foundation of everything we do.


Less is More

You don’t need hour-long workouts. 15-20 focused minutes a day can make a big difference.


Be Consistent, Not Perfect

Life happens. Aim for progress, not perfection. Show up when you can, and give yourself grace when you can’t.


Join a Community That Gets It

The ABC Fit Virtual Gym isn’t just workouts; it’s a connection, support, and a reminder that you’re not doing this alone.

Ready to feel what safe, effective movement really feels like?

You deserve to feel strong, capable, and connected to your body again. Whether you’re six weeks postpartum or six years into motherhood, it’s never too late to rebuild your strength.


Deadlifts aren’t just about aesthetics (though hello, lifted booty!), they’re also about function and feeling good in your own skin. And at ABC Fit Collective, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way.


So if you’re ready to take the guesswork out of your fitness and finally feel like yourself again, join us in the ABC Fit Virtual Gym. Your journey to safe, smart, feel-good movement starts now.

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